Get You Out Of A Sexual Rut

How to get out of A Sexual Rut with sex toys for couples.

What is a Sexual Rut?

First of all, a sexual rut is very common. A lot of couples experience it, since sex with the same person can become a routine, rather than mutual joy. It’s not that the attraction has disappeared, so you can calm down. You just always have the same old sex you had for years, not unlike eating the same food day after day to the point that the enjoyment is gone and you are merely fulfilling a physical need.

Passion is gone, you and your partner are lacking the spark that initially was present when you first met and found that you had good chemistry together. So naturally, the key is to bring the passion back, and enjoy sex like you did when you first started dating.

There are Lots of Ways to Fire Up Couples Sex again

Bring passion back into your bedroom. First of all, it doesn’t have to be in a bedroom. If you have never had sex in a public setting, I highly recommend it as it can provide thrills and excitement. But, we’re here to review one specific way to bring passion back into your love life so that you can get out of your sexual rut and boredom. That specific way is the use of couple’s sex toys. And, it needs to be said, sex toys aren’t necessarily about fulfilling a fetish even though they can be and often are for many people who use them. But the most important thing is to keep in mind that with sex toys, it’s all about you.

There are many different types of sex toys, from dildos, to vibrators to beads to handcuffs.

There is something for everyone whether you know it or not. What most guys don’t realize is that most girls love rough sex and masculinity. They want to be dominated, though they want the domination to stay in bedroom rather than in personal life. That’s fair enough. But, if you always have sex in the same position, every time you have sex, then that’s bad news.  Same old thing no matter how much you enjoy it will eventually get old. I mentioned handcuffs earlier, hence, you can cuff her to the bed and see how she likes it.

But, we’re not there yet. Sit still, because we have a lot more ground to cover, before we get there.

What’s The Cause Of A Sexual Rut?

As I mentioned earlier, the main cause of sexual rut is the disappearance and lack of passion. It disappears when you choose to have sex as a routine, instead of looking at it like as if it’s something special every time. Advice for both girls, and boys, is to experiment and explore your partners body. Though, you might feel like you have already explored it, it’s never enough.

Worst thing is that lack of passion can negatively affect other segments of relationship.

You might find that you fight a lot and argue much more than you used to and this may partly be due to your mutual frustration that has built up as you have lost passion. And, this is a two-sided coin. On one side, you can choose to allow the fighting to affect your sexual life in a negative way or you can use it to get rid of sexual rut. How? We’ll get to that. So basically, the cause is lack of attention between partners. It’s important to know, no one is guilty here. Things like this happen a lot.

How Sex Toys Come Into The Picture?

This is without question, a very important issue that must be addressed for you to stay in a happy and healthy relationship. You can work it out in a number of different ways, but the way we are going to talk about in this article is sex toys.

Now, forget your predispositions and keep an open mind. These adult toys are nothing nasty or morally wrong to have and use. They serve a specific function of helping you to get rid of sexual rut. It’s not something to be embarrassed of to begin with, but even if you are, then I have news for you. Everything you do will stay in your bedroom. Even if someone finds out, who cares? It’s something you are doing for your partner, and yourself. Ignore the hate.

Sexual rut will be yesterday’s news when you have successfully implemented these little devils into your lifestyle. Why are they good? The answer is simple, because sex toys simply make sex more interesting and fun. It shakes you out of your sexual routine, and makes it all a lot more worthwhile.

Sex toys are not only for solo-action.

Couples worldwide engage in sex spiced up by the use of sex toys. You also don’t have to be single or straight to use sex toys. There are plenty of sex toys just for same-sex relationships as well.

Did you know that 75% of women around the world can’t achieve orgasm during penetration sex?

They either need manual stimulation from themselves or their partner. And this is where sex toys come in handy, much more than you probably can imagine. You’ll see her tossing herself across the bed, with a small sound of a vibrator buzzing.

There is a myth that people who use sex toys for solo-action can’t enjoy sex with their partners.

Well that couldn’t be further from the truth than it is. As a matter of fact, it’s quite the opposite of what is true, studies have shown that women who use sex toys feel an even bigger desire for sex with their partners by their use.

Sex toys can help women forget about their insecurities during sex.

It shifts their attention to the more important matter at the time, and that is reaching orgasm. Why is that important? It’s important because that way both partners can enjoy sex more which ultimately will help your relationship.

There are enough sex toys and the right kind for everybody.

Everyone has something they are more interested in. For example, some people like to be cuffed, while others would rather not. My theory is that women are more comfortable in cuffs than men, but that might not be true. But men can be cuffed to and this makes the woman the dominant one in bed. It provides you with the opportunity to feel like a dominatrix. This is an odd one. You know how old is the first dildo ever discovered? 30,000 years old. People in that age must’ve been very, very sexual. That’s why we agree with them, and we suggest that you do to.

How Can Sex Toy’s Help?

Well they can help with many things. For example, many scientists that are covering this field, and yes there are scientists that cover this field, said that when there is some kind of dysfunction in bedroom, sex toys come to aid. It can help women who have anorgasmia to reach the climax. For women, reaching orgasm is a quite difficult thing. At least for most of them. But sex toys provide smooth vibrations over woman’s genital area which makes reaching orgasm easier.

Also, if men have erectile dysfunction, sex toys can help them reach climax without the penis even being erect. Yes, that’s possible too. If you need it, I definitely recommend that you try and find one of these toys.

It’s important to keep in mind that everything is new. Issues of this sort, should be talked through with the partner. You don’t want to surprise your partner with something they don’t like or something they are scared of. Make sure you talk to your partner and the decision on which toy will you use should be mutual.

More talking about it, builds more anticipation.

The more you anticipate something, the more you enjoy it and the more exciting it can be. But, try not to get too hyped to avoid disappointments.

Make sure that you experiment by yourself. That way you’ll be able to see what toy is best for you, which part of your body reacts best to it and such. There is no harm in trying something new or different to see if it works for you on a personal level. Don’t underestimate the power of masturbation. It can be used as a guide. A very precise guide, at that.

Toys are orgasmic objects, which makes reaching orgasm require less effort. This way, you can focus on your partner more. Focus on the rest of their body and if you’re the one receiving the treatment, you can focus on your own body. With the help of these toys, sexual ruts will leave your bedroom once and for all.

Which Sex Toy Design is the Best?

Keep in mind that there is no best sex toy and not every toy is for you but there is sex toy for everyone. Make sure to do the research before buying a sex toy. Buy it from safe source, which has a good reputation when it comes to sex toys.

You should pay special attention to the material of the sex toy.

Since the material has to be body-safe. What body safe mean? Well it means it provides you with security of not receiving a Candida infection or worse. If you understand how safe it is, the more you can enjoy the sexual satisfaction. Never buy a sex toy made out of jelly rubber as they aren’t body safe. Silicone ones are, but they have to be phthalate-free. The simplest material is regular plastic. They are body safe and are harder than silicone sex toys but they do provide excellent pleasure.

A second thing to keep in mind is which batteries does it use?

And how much does it cost to have a good stock of batteries? The strength of vibrations somewhat depends on batteries. Alkaline batteries might not work out as lithium battery could. And mains powered batteries may be stronger than lithium batteries. There are a lot of possibilities and lots of different options, and there is a lot to be considered before deciding to buy a sex toy.

A small bottle of lube can always help out.

Why? Because it will help things go a lot smoother. It doesn’t even matter if both partners are turned on, it just helps. There is a misconception that lube is only needed when a female partner is not turned on. This misconception is not true. Sometimes if a woman is turned on, it doesn’t necessarily mean that the woman will be wet. Keep one in stock as it may help you a lot.

Review Possible Choices

• You can always get yourself a vibrator. To be honest, it’s the simplest and easiest choice, and very satisfying. A lot of women own one. If a vibrator was a genre, then it has a lot of sub-genres. There are anal-vibrators, which helps men stimulate prostate.
• There are bullet vibrators, which is bullet-shaped and small. It can still be used for direct stimulation. The best part is, you can insert it in other sex toys, which will provide more stimulation.
• G-spot vibrators that are curved at the end. Why are they curved? Do some research on the G-spot.
• And if you ever watched Sex and the City, you must have heard of the rabbit vibrator. The rabbit vibrator is designed so that the longer part can thrust automatically and rotate. It also comes with an attachment part, a vibrating clitoral stimulator that is most often shaped with two bunny rabbit ears. The attached bunny rabbit ears are the reason why it’s called the rabbit vibrator.

When not applied by the law, handcuffs can be very sexy and a turn on.

Ordinary positions become less ordinary when handcuffs are brought into the picture. If you are a woman, and you like to be dominated, then missionary with handcuffs is the best choice for you. You won’t be able to move, so you will be at mercy of your partner.

Are you feeling excited yet?

Try Something Different

Now, if you are a man, and you don’t want to let go of being an alpha-male, I suggest that you get out of your comfort zone and try something different. Try a cowgirl and the reverse cowgirl sexual positions. These positions are interesting when you can’t touch your partner. She can do whatever she wants, and the fact is, women know what to do. Since you are at her mercy now, she can be a queen and sit on the throne, the throne being your face. It will stimulate her very much, and she will be teasing you.

She’ll make you anticipate what is going to happen next. The kinkiest position with handcuffs is when your partner is standing, cuffed to something above their head. Definitely get yourself a pair of handcuffs.